Self image | Self-esteem

How To Make You Less Vulnerable To Blows On Your Self-Esteem

Last weeks’ posts have been about how you directly can improve your self-esteem through getting to know yourself.   The posts have been about the importance of writing a daily diary about what you stand for, what matters to you, what you are experiencing, thinking and feeling as well as 3 small or big things…

Communication | Relationships | Self image | Self-esteem

Extroversion – The 3d Of The 5 Evidence Based Personality Traits

Last weeks’ post have been about the five basic dimensions of personality, often referred to as the Big 5 personality traits that serve as the building blocks of personality.   These 5 personality dimensions can help us learn more about ourselves and help us decide where to focus our energy and attention, both when it…

Feelings | Relationships | Self-esteem

How Our Feelings & Relationshsips Are Formed By The Parenting We Got

Earlier posts have been about how the interaction between a child and caretakers creates internal models for relationships that tend to be repeated in other close relationships and also colors the child’s basic attitude to others and also to self. This happens because the internal models develop into generalized expectations of how the child will…

Self image | Self-esteem

Why Optimists Can Achieve More

Self-efficacy, our beliefs about our capability to perform a specific activity, can be influenced and impacts our well-being and self-esteem.   There are many adaptive benefits of optimistic self-beliefs of efficacy. When it comes to mental health, a study has shown that even those with no clinical level of symptoms and distress distorts reality, but…

Healthy Routines | Mindfulness | Self-esteem

The connection between flow, minfulness and the development of a stronger self

The main thesis of Csikszentmihalyi’s flow-concept is that happiness is not a state but can be developed through learning how to achieve flow in our lives. He describes it as: “…a state in which people are so involved in an activity that nothing else seems to matter; the experience is so enjoyable that people will continue…

Feelings | Self image | Self-esteem

Self-esteem: Self-efficacy and Affective Processes

This post continues on the theme of self-efficacy, our beliefs about our capability to perform specific tasks or actions, which can be influenced directly and also has an important impact on our psychological wellbeing. As noted in earlier posts, much research has been conducted on the 4 major psychological processes through which self-efficacy affects human…

Healthy Routines | Self image | Self-esteem

Self-efficacy: Importance of Motivational Processes Contd

This post continues on the theme of self-efficacy, our beliefs about our capability to perform specific tasks or actions, which also has an important impact on our psychological wellbeing. As noted last week, much research has been conducted on the 4 major psychological processes through which self-efficacy affects human functioning and hence can be increased….

Healthy Routines | Mindfulness | Self image | Self-esteem

Self-esteem: How To Enhance Self-efficacy

Much research has been conducted on the four major psychological processes through which self-efficacy affects human functioning and hence can be increased: 1. Cognitive Processes: Much human behaviour is intentional and regulated by forethought and valued goals. The stronger the perceived self-efficacy, the higher the goal challenges people set for themselves and the firmer is…

Feelings | Healthy Routines | Life goals | Mindfulness | Relationships | Self image | Self-esteem

Reflections, rest and celebration: Some More Happiness Research

There has been much research into the field of happiness since it is closely connected to perceived wellbeing. There are correlational findings about human happiness identified by psychologist Martin Seligman, one of the thought leaders within the field of positive psychology. He proposes the following 5 dimensions: 1. The importance of pleasures in daily life…

Healthy Routines | Self image | Self-esteem

Self-esteem – How To Improve Self-efficacy

Bandura’s concept of self-efficacy is about one’s beliefs about one’s capability to perform specific tasks, independent of the value attached to that act. Self-efficacy has 4 main sources of influence: 1. The most effective way of creating a strong sense of efficacy is through experiences of mastery coming from achieved successes, which build a robust…