Stress

What to do when too stressed or too tired to steer your thoughts (1 minute read)

What to do when too stressed or too tired to steer your thoughts (1 minute read) In “What to do when too stressed or too tired to steer your thoughts” continues a summary of my posts on how to recover as quickly as possible from more serious stress and exhaustion symptoms. As mentioned earlier, in…

Anxiety & Mood

The 2d step in challenging anxiety provoking thought traps (1 minute read)

The 2d step in challenging anxiety provoking thought traps (1 minute read) This post “The 2d step in challenging anxiety provoking thought traps” is about how you can manage anxiety by understanding more about thought traps. There are many anxiety inducing patterns often called cognitive distortions or thought traps. These are ways of thinking that…

Self image | Stress

When the worry-hour can be helpful for handling stress (1 minute read)

When the worry-hour can be helpful for handling stress (1 minute read) In “When the worry-hour can be helpful for handling stress” continues a summary of my posts on how to recover as quickly as possible from more serious stress and exhaustion symptoms. As mentioned earlier, in my daily work with people who have sought…

Anxiety & Mood

How to challenge anxiety provoking thought traps (1 minute read)

How to challenge anxiety provoking thought traps (1 minute read) This post “How to challenge anxiety provoking thought traps” is about how you can manage anxiety by understanding thought traps. There are many anxiety inducing patterns often called cognitive distortions or thought traps. These are ways of thinking that seem true but are in fact…

Anxiety & Mood | Stress

More about how to make the worry hour work when having stressful thoughts (1 minute read)

More about how to make the worry hour work when having stressful thoughts (1 minute read) In “More about how to make the worry hour work when having stressful thoughts” continues a summary of my posts on how to recover as quickly as possible from more serious stress and exhaustion symptoms. As mentioned earlier, in…

Anxiety & Mood

More about thought distortions that trap thoughts and create suffering (1 minute read)

More about thought distortions that trap thoughts and create suffering (1 minute read) This post “More about thought distortions that trap thoughts and create suffering” continues with how you can manage anxiety by understanding thought traps. There are many anxiety inducing patterns often called cognitive distortions or thought traps. These are ways of thinking that…

Anxiety & Mood | Communication | Healthy Routines | Relationships

How to address thought traps with 4 steps based on cognitive therapy (1 minute read)

How to address thought traps with 4 steps based on cognitive therapy (1 minute read) This post “How to address thought traps with 4 steps in cognitive therapy” can be usedd to reduce anxiety. There are many anxiety inducing patterns often called cognitive distortions or thought traps. These are ways of thinking that seem true…

Communication | Relationships | Self image | Self-esteem

Extroversion – The 3d Of The 5 Evidence Based Personality Traits

Last weeks’ post have been about the five basic dimensions of personality, often referred to as the Big 5 personality traits that serve as the building blocks of personality.   These 5 personality dimensions can help us learn more about ourselves and help us decide where to focus our energy and attention, both when it…

Feelings | Relationships | Self-esteem

How Our Feelings & Relationshsips Are Formed By The Parenting We Got

Earlier posts have been about how the interaction between a child and caretakers creates internal models for relationships that tend to be repeated in other close relationships and also colors the child’s basic attitude to others and also to self. This happens because the internal models develop into generalized expectations of how the child will…

Feelings | Relationships | Self image

Why Your Parents’ Emotional Abilities Matters For Your Identity, Self-Esteem & Ability To Regulate Emotions

Earlier posts have been about how the interaction with a child and caretakers creates internal working models for relationships that tends to be repeated in other close relationships and also colors the child’s basic attitude to others and also to the self. The quality and resulting patterns of these models are also believed to affect…